Thursday, September 14, 2017

THE FUNDAMENTALS OF A GOOD ADVISING..

A well informed man once approached a group of hard working people and told them that he had all the material with him to educate them on how they could do their works well, have a good life and thus be happy in their lives..

The group politely told him,

  • “Sir! This moment, we have no time to listen, look into and follow your advice as we are very busy with no additional time at our disposal for learning anything new other than repeating our own routine!”
The gentleman waited patiently for the day when they would be having free time and it never came up..
  • On week days the men were busy with their work..
  • During weekends busy with their personal life and meeting those requirements.. and
  • On a holiday relaxing the onetime chance in life..
And their life continued thus without his advice!

Seen thus, it's very much evident that the Speaker-Listener relation in the world is ever sacred and all individuals, all places and all times never uphold the sacred relationship to establish!

Here from both the Speaker's and Listener's points of view,

  • The primary requirement is to have an open mind..
  • The next requirement is firming up to free himself/herself from the so called ‘Worth’ or ‘Specialty’ which includes one's own values, opinions, dogmas, theories, beliefs, the likes and dislikes etc without ever questioning the same in the next man..
  • The third requirement is freeing oneself from all the above never seen as a path of burden; instead experiencing it as a path of effortlessness through the instantaneous understanding of the Spirit of Living..
  • The final requirement is knowing well that 
All times are not favorable for this to take place,
At times such occasion may not come up too in the entire span of one's life,
All the methods of Honest Work help,
No Special Paths bring quick results and
No Materialist Experience has an edge!

Tuned up thus, when a person decides to speak out something to the world with a clear understanding that
  • Nature is the original teacher to all and the happenings around and their interactions with one’s life alone teach a lot, 
He/she is sure seen as

The True Wonder and the world around readies itself to help him/her out!

Equally tuned up thus, when the Listener readies himself/herself to listen with,
  • A strong urge to learn which alone makes one absorb the toughest,
He/she is sure seen as

The True Wonder and the world around readies itself to help him/her out!

When an interaction takes place between such a Speaker and Listener,
  • The material of interaction remains as the Sacred Entity which becomes the requirement of the world at that moment and 
  • It automatically becomes the 'Right Material' with both the individuals to be taken to the Deity as their best Offering at their Place of Worship!
There alone a 'True Change' materializes through an 'Advice!'

Keyword: Advice

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