Monday, October 23, 2017

WHATEVER BE THE FINAL OUTCOME, IT'S SURE A LIFE OF MORE RESPONSIBILITIES!

The 8 yrs old boy all of a sudden happened to witness a sad incident. That night his sleep got disturbed with bad dreams followed by an unknown shouting while on bed out of fear and the next day his routine sleeping activity became a terror. The Mom observed that and said,

“Dear! From today, we'll repeat this Sloka of Strength with us before going to bed.. Say with me..

Ramaskandham hanumantham vainateyam vrkodaram
shayane yah smarennithyam duh swapnam thasya nasyathi


The Mighty, Strong and Powerful Lord Hanuman, Garuda and Bheema by your side drive away your bad dreams making you sleep sound!”

And that just clicked with the boy as he believed his Mom beyond and instantly he was freed from his fear and misery an unknown strength replacing that..

That's what the love of a mother does towards her kid!

The same boy at 15+ yrs murmured,

“He never says once that I did the right.. Why does he scold me thus? Always says Learn.. Learn.. Learn! Very easy to say.. It's better, sometime I'm left alone!”

As planned, the father and son went that day evening to the grocery shop 3 km away from their home. There the son was made to

  • Bargain for the price, 
  • Check the weight and 
  • Select the good items 
at the back of many remarks..

Soon all the bundles were moved into a small open van, the son sat in front and the father at the back holding two big tins of oil, a few packets of powders in both the hands..

On the way over a narrow bridge as the vehicle maneuvered the steep up, it suddenly swiveled and rested on the edge of the road tilting precariously towards the waters at depth..

The father instantly jumped out of the vehicle shouting aloud at his son leaving the items in his hands,

  • "Dear! Get down first from the vehicle!"
The next moment, all the oil splashed to the ground as the huge tins hit the road. The powders fell everywhere around. A few items straight away slipped down into the waters below.

Not bothered anything beyond, the dad hugged son saying,

  • "Don't worry.. You are safe. That's enough for me!" 
That's what the love of a dad towards his child speaks..

In a normal situation such caring attitudes from both the parents together help the child grow to a full fledged individual in his/her life.

Unfortunately when certain rift runs thru' such relationship which will have its own reasons as ultimately the freedom of individuals come on top priority, that soon may result in separation of the partners thru' legal divorce proceedings.


Those proceedings detail how the future responsibilities of one time united relationship have to be handled along with the way the children of the family have to be taken care of for the ultimate good of every one.

In such a situation, it's essential that both the parties uphold all those future duties assigned along with the additional responsibilities that come up thru' subsequent married relationships of both the parties to the root and thus move on in their lives taking the best of the situation in front!

The Post is written in line with the week's IndiSpire prompt Divorce affects the social, mental and physical health of a Child. Agree or disagree? #divorce

Keyword: divorce


2 comments:

  1. Whether situation or the person is the reason for separation, it always the child that suffers the most. Balancing nature of parent's care is a must for the stability of the child's world.
    Well represented post!

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    1. You said it very much right, Anagha.. Sure, an understanding parent sees this point instead of unnecessarily allowing the issues go out of hand unless it's a situation of no go.. Thanks for the interesting appreciative comment on the Post!

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