THE LIMIT HERE!

A young man was constantly thinking of too polite behavior from his side whenever he was in a group of people i.e.,
A politeness beyond the ease of an individual!

Thus often he used to put up an almost artificial behavior in groups of people when interacting thru'

• Too often smiling,
• Too much talking and
• Too many body movements

Which in turn was causing a great stress in him. He could no longer hold it in himself, at the earliest opportunity discussed the issue with a close elderly well-wisher and sincerely sought a remedy for the same..

The well-wisher looked at him, smiled and said,

“My dear! Politeness, no doubt is a good quality with an individual and it makes many issues resolved instantly. But what you have told me indicates that you have become a slave to it and thus lost your freedom in that process. It's a disease with few individuals and it's better, those suffering from this problem soon control their behaviors..

Just remember..

Over pleasing some one is not your job as no one really gets pleased beyond whatever you are ready to do in the process! 

In fact, thru' over pleasing,

• You would be irritating a genuine individual who is not in a position to express that and

• A few of such people sooner or later sure turn off from you unable bear the nuisance.. 

Here, sometimes even the lesser is better because that quickly brings the required balance in the behaviors of both the parties!”

While departing the elderly quipped,

“Let the attention required from us even for a VVIP Guest be simmering a little when we deal with them. The reason is..

Even the VVIP Guest too can fillup that

'Small Missing Gap'

Through own effort and social adjustment very much feasible for him/her.. That quickly brings the required balance in the situation and soon the dust settles!

Such an act is truly heroic rather than doing extras and thus indirectly remain in a surrendering mode.. But ever remember.. Here that

'Missing Attention'

Should be as small as possible and should never go beyond at any time!"

Keyword: politeness